Today I celebrate my 4th wedding anniversary and so I wanted to do a post about love. My husband, Edward and I have been together for 7 years and I can’t believe how fast time has just flown by.
I remember our first date as if it were yesterday, I remember the place, the food we ate, what he wore, everything in great detail. Most of all however I remember the feeling I got when I met him, I knew right away that he was the one for me.
Unlike most couples who in the early days maybe see each other on the weekend or the occasional week night. We saw each other everyday and this has carried on for our whole relationship so far. It may be 7 years in actual length but compared to most we have been together a hell of a lot longer.
Like any couple we have our moments of wanting to strangle each other but it’s how we move past those moments that define our relationship. It’s the love that cures the little arguments and as quick as they came they are gone again and we return to normal.
We have spent no more than 30 days apart in our whole 7 years and on the rare occasion we are apart we both see it as something to endure until we can be together again. It must sound so corny and saccharine sweet to some but that’s what love is. It is all consuming and powerful and I believe the hardest emotion to fake. For me it’s easy to tell when a couple is really in love or just in lust. The latter I often find are just too perfect. I think we all start off in lust and love, however I think love is the more sustainable of the two and when the lust subsides the thing holding you together is the love.
So on this day I’d like to say to my husband that I may not be able to give you expensive things but I can give you something that is most precious and unique and that is my love. Precious because I don’t give it lightly and unique because it’s my feelings for you that create it and that cannot be recreated or understood completely by anyone maybe not even you.
Here is to the rest of our lives, thank you for letting me walk a step ahead and for gently pushing me in the right direction when I lose my way. Thank you for lighting up the darkest of days and for lovingly bringing me back down to earth when I get lost in myself. Thank you for keeping me warm in both my heart and in bed and most of all thank you for loving me and seeing the me as no other can.
I would be lost without you.
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